Alarming signs of burnout

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We all want to do well in life. We chase deadlines, show up for others, say yes when we’re already full, and try to stay “on” even when our internal battery is flashing red. And while there’s something admirable about dedication and perseverance, there’s also something deeply human—and often overlooked—about slowing down.

Burnout doesn’t show up overnight. It creeps in quietly, disguised as fatigue, irritability, or simply a sense that life feels heavier than usual. But the sooner we recognize it, the sooner we can begin to heal from it.

"I was the perfect person to have a burnout because I was not listening to my body at all."

Robin Soderling

So let’s walk through five signs of burnout—clear signals that your mind, body, and spirit are asking for care. Not because you’re weak.
But because you’ve been strong for a very long time.

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Signs of burnout

  1. You feel exhausted

  2. You’ve lost joy

  3. You’re easily irritated

  4. You feel disconnected

  5. Your body is sending signals


You feel exhausted:
You go to bed early.
You sleep in on the weekends.
You try to squeeze in a nap when you can.
But no matter what, you wake up tired. Your body might be still, but your mind never really shuts off.
This kind of exhaustion is more than being sleepy. It’s the mental and emotional fatigue that comes from carrying too much for too long. It’s when your thoughts feel foggy, your body feels sluggish, and your soul feels like it’s wading through wet cement.

You’re not just tired—you’re depleted.
What it might sound like in your head:“I had a full night’s sleep… so why do I still feel like I’ve been hit by a truck?”

What you can do:
Try giving yourself permission to rest in new ways. That might mean stepping away from overstimulation—less screen time, fewer to-dos—and allowing yourself quiet moments of simply being. You don’t always need sleep; sometimes, you need stillness.

You’ve lost joy:
One of the earliest signs of burnout is the dulling of joy. The hobbies that once energized you? They feel like a chore. Social plans you used to look forward to?
You’d rather cancel. Even small pleasures—music, food, laughter—feel muted.

Burnout doesn’t just zap your energy; it steals your sense of engagement with the world. It’s not that you don’t care—it’s that you can’t right now. You’re too drained to feel much of anything.

What it might sound like in your head:
“I know I used to enjoy this… I just don’t feel anything anymore.”

What you can do:
Start with the tiniest spark. Revisit something you once loved, without any pressure to be good at it or finish it. A short walk. A favorite song. Coloring. Writing.
Petting your dog. Joy doesn’t always return in big moments—it often comes back in whispers.

You’re easily irritated:
Do you find yourself snapping at people over minor things? Feeling panicked over simple tasks? Crying at random times for no clear reason?
When we’re burned out, our nervous system gets stuck in overdrive. The fight-flight-freeze mode that’s designed to protect us in danger becomes our default setting.
We’re hypersensitive, emotionally raw, and easily overwhelmed.

This isn’t just about “being stressed.” It’s about your emotional cup being so full, there’s no room for even a drop more.

What it might sound like in your head:
“Why am I so on edge all the time? This isn’t me.”

What you can do:
Create emotional breathing space.
That could mean setting boundaries around your time and energy, journaling to release what you’re holding inside, or talking to a therapist or close friend.
You don’t have to carry it all alone.

You feel disconnected:
There’s a difference between being alone and feeling lonely. Burnout often makes us feel emotionally cut off—from people, from purpose, even from ourselves.
You might feel like you’re moving through life on autopilot. You show up at work, reply to texts, go through the motions… but it all feels hollow. Like you’re watching yourself from the outside instead of being in your life.

This sense of disconnection can be one of the hardest parts of burnout, because it makes us feel like strangers in our own lives.

What it might sound like in your head:
“I don’t even know who I am anymore.”

What you can do:
Slow down and reconnect with yourself. That might mean spending time in nature, turning inward with meditation, or having real, honest conversations with someone who knows the real you. You don’t have to fix everything at once—just come home to yourself, one small step at a time.


Your body is sending signals:
Burnout doesn’t live only in your mind. It takes up residence in your body, too.
It shows up in tension headaches, stomach issues, chronic fatigue, insomnia, or unexplained aches and pains.
When your body is constantly in survival mode, it starts to break down. It’s not trying to punish you. It’s trying to protect you. To wake you up before things get worse.

What it might sound like in your head:
“Why does everything hurt lately? Am I just getting older… or is something wrong?”

What you can do:
Instead of ignoring or numbing these signs, try tuning in. Listen with compassion.
Treat your body as an ally. Eat nourishing foods. Move gently. Stretch. Rest. Hydrate. Go to the doctor if needed—but also ask: what in my life is causing this?


In conclusion

Burnout is not a badge of honor. It’s a gentle—and sometimes not-so-gentle—nudge to return to yourself.
You don’t need to earn rest. You don’t have to prove your worth through constant productivity. And you’re allowed to want a life that feels good—not just one that looks busy.
So if any of this resonates with you, take a deep breath. You’re not broken. You’re tired. And that’s something we can work with.
Give yourself permission to pause.
Because when you rest, reset, and realign with what truly matters—you don’t fall behind.

You come back home.


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