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How to overcome objections
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How to overcome objections
Let’s be real—nobody enjoys objections.
Whether you’re selling a product, pitching an idea, or just trying to convince your friends to pick your favorite restaurant for dinner, hearing “no,” “maybe,” or “I’m not sure” can feel frustrating.
But here’s the thing: objections are not outright rejections. In fact, they’re a sign that someone is still engaged in the conversation.
They just need more information, reassurance, or clarity before making a decision.
And that’s where your ability to handle objections like a pro comes into play.
The good news?
Overcoming objections isn’t about tricking or forcing someone to say yes—it’s about understanding their concerns and helping them feel confident in their choice.
If you can master this skill, you’ll not only close more deals but also improve your ability to persuade in everyday life.
Common mistakes
When faced with an objection, most people react in one of two unhelpful ways:
They take it personally and freeze.
Objections can feel like rejection, and no one likes rejection. Many people immediately shut down or assume the conversation is over, missing a valuable opportunity to turn things around.
They get defensive and try to argue.
Others go into “convince mode,” bombarding the other person with facts, explanations, and counterarguments. This usually has the opposite effect—it makes the person dig their heels in even deeper.
"Treat objections as requests for further information."
Neither of these reactions is effective. Instead of seeing objections as barriers, think of them as invitations to continue the conversation. If someone objects, it means they are still considering your offer. Your job is to uncover the real reason behind their hesitation and provide a solution.
The two keys
Overcoming objections comes down to two fundamental strategies:
1. Listen and understand the real concern
2. Provide reassurance and build confidence
Let’s break these down step by step.
How to do it
Listen and understand the real concern
Provide reassurance and build confidence
Listen and understand the real concern:
Most people make the mistake of assuming they know why someone is objecting.
But objections can have many layers, and if you don’t take the time to understand what’s really going on, you might waste your time addressing the wrong issue.
For example, imagine a potential customer says:
“This is too expensive.”
What does that actually mean?
•Do they mean they literally can’t afford it?
•Do they mean they don’t see the value compared to the price?
•Do they mean they need approval from someone else?
•Do they mean they are just hesitant about making any big commitment?
Each of these concerns is different—and each requires a different response.
This is why curiosity is your best tool when handling objections.
Instead of assuming, ask clarifying questions:
“Can you tell me more about what’s holding you back?”
“When you say it’s expensive, do you mean it’s outside your budget, or that you’re not sure it’s worth the cost?”
“Besides the price, is there anything else you’re concerned about?”
By asking open-ended questions, you create space for a real conversation. More often than not, you’ll discover that the stated objection (like price) isn’t the real issue—it’s just the easiest one to say out loud.
When people feel heard and understood, they become more open to finding a solution.
Provide reassurance and build confidence:
Once you uncover the real concern, the next step is to reassure the person and build their confidence in moving forward.
Think about how we all make decisions.
We rarely choose the absolute best option—we choose the one that feels safest. That’s why well-known brands dominate the market. People trust them. They know what to expect.
So, how can you create that same feeling of trust and certainty when someone is hesitating?
1. Show Proof
People want to know they’re making the right decision.
You can help by sharing:
•Customer testimonials and success stories
•Case studies showing how your solution worked for others
•Data and evidence that back up your claims
For example:
“I totally understand your concern. Many of our customers felt the same way at first, but after trying it, they saw huge benefits. Here’s what one of them had to say…”
2. Make it Risk-Free
One of the biggest fears people have is making the wrong decision. The more you can reduce their risk, the easier it is for them to say yes.
Ways to do this include:
•Money-back guarantee
•Free trials or samples
•Flexible return policies
•Low-cost starter options
For example:
“How about this? Try it for 30 days, and if it doesn’t work for you, you can get a full refund. That way, there’s no risk on your end.”
3. Show Confidence
If you don’t believe in what you’re offering, why should they? Confidence is contagious. When you show strong belief in your product, service, or idea, others will naturally feel more comfortable trusting you.
For example:
“I wouldn’t recommend this if I didn’t truly believe it would help you. Based on what you’ve told me, I honestly think this is the right solution for you.”
When people feel safe and supported, objections start to melt away.
In conclusion
Overcoming objections isn’t about arguing or forcing someone into a decision.
It’s about understanding their concerns and guiding them toward confidence.
So the next time someone says:
“I’m not sure.
“I need to think about it.”
“It’s too expensive.”
Don’t panic! Instead:
Stay calm and ask questions to understand the real issue. Provide reassurance and reduce uncertainty by showing proof, minimizing risk, and expressing confidence.
By doing this, you turn objections into opportunities—and that’s how you win more often.
Whether you’re in sales, negotiating a raise, or just convincing a friend to try something new, mastering the art of overcoming objections will help you get more of what you want in life.
Thank you for reading.
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